Use of Self!

Weekly Strength

September 3, 2010

Some heard the succinct responses (four words in response to two questions) that student social worker Camille gave as she finished her internship at a Home Care and Hospice: What has been the best part of your education? “Here.” (Working here was the best part.) What is the greatest lesson you have learned so far? “Use of self.” 

 Reflecting on Camille’s response, I feel how gratifying full use of self in service can be and how one person can make a precious impression on another.

 British preacher G. Campbell Morgan (1863-1945) tells a story (edited) that emphasizes the value of presence in relationship.

 

A father and his young daughter enjoyed each other’s company. Then, he noticed a change. Repeatedly, when invited for their regular long walks she excused herself. Grieved, he could not understand. His birthday arrived and she presented him with carefully hand-crafted slippers, “I made them for you.” Clearly she had chosen time away to attend her three-month task of love.

 

Pleased with the slippers he realized his deepest joy was in his daughter herself, not in what she might do for him. He told her how much he had missed her and their long walks. She realized he delighted in her more than in her handiwork. Her awareness of his delight in her helped her realize how much she was missed during his long walks.

 

This father and Camille teach us to engage ourselves to enrich the life of those near us.

 

– Chaplain Robin